Wounded Feminine and Masculine

In this viral Kroger video, a woman playfully brags about how her husband refused to help two other customers reach an item on a high shelf unless she gave him permission first. As the women struggled to reach the product, they asked her husband for help — but he looked at his wife for approval and ultimately didn’t assist without her sign-off. The clip sparked lots of laughs and reactions online about relationships, boundaries, and grocery store etiquette.”

When they encourage BAD behavior they collect the energy the benefit from other people feeling embarrassed, unsafe, insecure, unloved etc. When they discourage GOOD behavior, they are hoarding energy and harvesting energy at others expense.